Adult Attachment Scale

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Adult Attachment Scale: Close Relationships Version

(Collins, 1996 )

The following questions concern how you generally feel in important close relationships in your life. Think about your past and present relationships with people who have been especially important to you, such as family members, romantic partners, and close friends. Respond to each statement in terms of how you generally feel in these relationships. The scale consists of 18 items scored on a 5 point likert-type scale. It measures adult attachment styles named “Secure”, “Anxious” and “Avoidant”.

Scoring Reframes: Please note this scale measures Secure/ Close, Avoidant, and Anxious attachment styles. For rating purposes, the scale included Disorganized, or Mixed, Attachment within the Anxious rating. The score will display the number of questions answered flagged for the first three attachment styles. If you notice that the numbers are close for both avoidant and anxious, then it may be possible you have a disorganized, or mixed, attachment style. This attachment style is more likely to occur with neurodivergent individuals, those that experienced acute trauma, history of traumatic brain injury, or those that experienced developmental trauma.

1. I find it relatively easy to get close to people.

2. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on others.

3. I often worry that other people don't really love me.

4. I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like.

5. I am comfortable depending on others.

6. I don’t worry about people getting too close to me.

7. I find that people are never there when you need them.

8. I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others.

9. I often worry that other people won’t want to stay with me.

10. When I show my feelings for others, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.

11. I often wonder whether other people really care about me.

12. I am comfortable developing close relationships with others.

13. I am uncomfortable when anyone gets too emotionally close to me.

14. I know that people will be there when I need them.

15. I want to get close to people, but I worry about being hurt.

16. I find it difficult to trust others completely.

17. People often want me to be emotionally closer than I feel comfortable being.

18. I am not sure that I can always depend on people to be there when I need them.

I just found out my adult attachment style. Curious about attachment styles and the roles they play in our relationships as adults? The Adult Attachment Scale can be a starting point for understanding underlying nervous system responses. I wonder what yours will be.

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